Grace Presbyterian Church
January 31, 2016, Epiphany 4C
1 Corinthians 13:1-14:1a
What It Looks Like: We Love
I feel compelled
to make one thing clear: despite the scripture passage you’ve just heard,
nobody is getting married today. At least not here in this service.
This chapter,
probably the most famous thing the Apostle Paul ever wrote by a long shot, is a
prime example of a verse that has become so associated with or attached to a
particular occasion or usage, in the minds of so many church folk, that we get
blinded to the fact that it wasn’t written for that particular purpose, and by
so confining it in our minds or in our church life we are in fact starving
ourselves of the very spiritual nutrients the passage was meant to provide for
us, the “more excellent way” Paul urges upon us.
Before going
further, let me make this clear: just because this passage wasn’t written as an
ode to romantic love doesn’t mean it isn’t appropriate for a service of
marriage. There’s nothing starry-eyed or swoony about the love Paul describes
here. This love is tough, determined, and persistent, enduring even in the
harshest of times. Yes, that is exactly the kind of love of which a couple
needs to be reminded on the occasion of their marriage. We simply need to hear
it at other times as well, and not connected to a wedding.
Though it may seem
a bit of a diversion or tangent when situated in the contest of what Paul has
just said before and is about to say after, in fact it is quite the opposite. Paul’s
discourse on love is central to this part of his letter, and one might even
argue to the whole letter as well. Indeed, the litany of love’s characteristics
is more than just beautiful and poetic; it is a pointed response to those
difficult Corinthians to whom Paul was writing, who had created the divisions
Paul addresses in this letter.
First of all, the
very gifts Paul has been discussing in chapter 12 are put in their place, in
verses 1-3. Without love, none of them – none of these gifts over which the
Corinthians had been in dispute, trying to one-up each other – are anything.
Not the most eloquent or powerful speech, not prophecy, not even faith, not
even the most extravagant generosity. Without love, these simply don’t add up
to anything. If anything, as the Corinthians are experiencing, even those great
gifts can become destructive.
If Paul is perhaps
deflating the egos of the Corinthians in verses 1-3, he gets quite pointed in
verses 4-7. For example, Paul isn’t just being lofty and poetic when he says “love is not envious” in verse 4; Paul
is very specifically responding to the behavior of the Corinthians he has
already chastised back in chapter 3, verse 3. Saying that love is not boastful
follows very clearly after Paul’s admonition in 5:6 that “your boasting is not a good thing.” He flat-out calls them
“arrogant” in 5:2, which love is not here. In short, the Corinthians are
profoundly lacking in love for one another, and thus their church is fractured
and difficult.
No two churches
are alike. There are, though, ways that any church might want to examine itself
to see just how its actions and missions and enacting of its spiritual gifts
actually reflects the love of Christ for the church and the love Christ charges
the church to show to the world. It’s far too easy for any given church to slip
into a pattern of “going through the motions” in its missions and ministries.
Conversely, such missions or ministries can fall into the trap of being ways
the church flaunts itself, getting “puffed up” as the King James Version
translates Paul’s description of the Corinthians, and pointing to its good
works as a means of exalting itself against “those people” in other churches or
denominations or religions. And that, whatever it is, isn’t love.
At this point Paul
turns again to those spiritual gifts from chapter 12, and how love is “more
excellent” because, as verse 8 puts it, “love
never ends.” It would be easy to mis-interpret this passage as a particular
kind of criticism of those gifts, but that would be to miss Paul’s point. Gifts
such as prophecy, knowledge, or tongues are finite. More precisely, they are
end-directed. These are gifts given by the Spirit, at the Spirit’s own
initiative and the Spirit’s own choice, for this in-between time when we are in
relationship with God, when we are the body of Christ but not yet in union with
Christ. When we are come at last to that place where we are eternally in the
company and presence of God the Father and God the Son and God the Holy Spirit,
there will be no need for prophecy. There will be no point to tongues. Knowledge
will be fulfilled. Teaching, preaching, help, all those other gifts will be
done.
But love never ends. Love is as eternal as
God is eternal. That eternal union with God will be all love.
Even faith and
hope, as Paul describes in the chapter’s final and most famous verse, are
secondary to love in this way. Faith and hope are beautiful. They are amazing
gifts of the Spirit. But like the others Paul describes, they are finite gifts
to help sustain us through this in-between time. If faith is, as the author of
Hebrews describes, “the assurance of
things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen,” then what is the
point of faith when we are in the very presence of God, seeing God face to
face? What is the point of hope when God is unmistakably and unshakably in the
midst of us, for all to see? The partial things, as Paul says in verse 10, come
to an end.
But love never ends. Love is as eternal as
God is eternal.
Love. Never. Ends.
Though it is not
part of today’s lectionary reading, the first verse of chapter 14 is useful, or
even needful, to place chapter 13 into proper relationship with chapter 12.
“Pursue love, and strive for the spiritual gifts.”
Not either/or,
both/and.
Paul’s instruction
does not mean that the Corinthians, or we, should somehow deny the gifts we
have been given by the Spirit – and remember from back in 12:3 that anyone who truly confesses that “Jesus
is Lord” is gifted by the Holy Spirit. Rather, Paul needs the Corinthians, and
us, to understand that the care and feeding and usage of our spiritual gifts
within the body of Christ and out in the larger world only works in the context
of love – the love that God has shown us so that we might show love for one
another and for all of God’s creation.
Sometimes that
love takes on dramatic forms. Social media offered up this week a story (drawn from the Today show) of a woman in
Wisconsin, Cori Salchert, who after a career as a nurse has come into a unique
and sometimes heartbreaking calling. Cori and her family take in infants with
terminal or extremely life-limiting diagnoses. She calls them “hospice babies.”
The first such
infant the family took in lived fifty days, which might have been forty-five
days longer than might have been expected. Cori Salcher is a trained nurse; she
has no illusions that any child they take in will be “saved” in their care. She
knows they will die.
But for those
fifty days, or three months or two years or however long each child may live,
that child will be loved. Not for hope of any return or expectation of any
miracle, and not because it will somehow make her family any “holier” than any
other family. That child will be loved because God loves, eternally, and her
family will be a vessel of that love.
Our stories will
not be that dramatic. They will be heartbreaking at times. They will try our
patience or our virtue. We may stumble in grief and leap for joy at the same
time because of that love. But if we dare to call ourselves followers of
Christ, we will love, without reservation and without qualification.
We will love
because God is love, eternal and unending. We will love because God loves. We
will love because Christ loves. And we will love because that’s what the body
of Christ does.
For love, eternal
and unending, Thanks be to God. Amen.
Hymns
(PH ’90): “Lord, Speak to Me That I
May Speak (426); “Not For Tongues of Heaven’s Angels” (531); “Though I May
Speak” (335); “O Love That Wilt Not Let Me Go” (384).
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