First Presbyterian Church
October 18, 2026, Pentecost 22A (Stewardship)
Matthew 19:16-26
How Not to Give (or Live)
It’s a curious story, and as is often the case, Matthew tells it particularly curiously.
It is told in the gospel of Mark, which was written before Matthew, but this author provides some details and wording that Mark does not, resulting in particular lessons for us that are emphasized to a degree that they are not in Mark (or in Luke, for that matter, which also tells this story; Luke is the only gospel that refers to this man as the “rich young ruler”).
I’m guessing the outlines of the story are familiar, “rich young ruler” or not. The young man comes to Jesus asking about eternal life; Jesus, after a sly remark about being called “good,” instructs the young man to “keep the commandments,” emphasizing the later commandments about interpersonal relations; the young man says he has kept those all his life, and Jesus instructs him to go and sell all he has and give it away to the poor, and to come follow him; the young man goes away sorrowing, because he has a lot of stuff. The story is capped with some dialogue between Jesus and the disciples, dialogue that includes that famous line about it being easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God (and that leads into the account from Matthew 20 that we heard a few weeks ago, about the day laborers and the vineyard owner).
The outline is indeed familiar, but Matthew does include some distinctive details. For example: while Mark and Luke merely depicting the man asking what he had to do to receive (or “inherit”) eternal life, Matthew phrases the question differently; “what good deed must I do to have eternal life?” I suspect Matthew’s version might resonate even more strongly for us modern-day Christians; whether Christians admit it or not, so many times the practiced theology of so many, both churches and individuals, uncovers the secret, even unspoken conviction that we are just fine with Jesus, or Jesus is just fine with us, if we do a few prescribed “good deeds” for some poor unfortunate soul.
Both Paul’s letter to the Romans, where we spent a few months, and the forthcoming anniversary of the Reformation, much of which was inspired by Martin Luther’s intensive study of precisely that book, call out the lie inherent here. Our salvation is by grace – God’s grace – alone; no deed of ours will ever contribute one whit to our “being saved.” (The later letter of James will remind us that if indeed we are saved, our lives will show it in the deeds we do, but those deeds reflect our salvation; they do not procure it.)
While Jesus could easily have pursued that theological argument, he was far more interested in the soul of this young man asking this (evidently sincere, but still misguided) question. His return with the prescribed commandments (with his own formulation summary, “love your neighbor as yourself”) draws forth (again distinctive of Matthew’s account) the stark admission of emptiness from the young man – “I have kept all these; what do I still lack?” All the rigorous rule-keeping and the hole in the soul is still there.
Jesus’s challenge to the young man is not a universal proclamation; it is specifically directed to this individual. It is not an order that every follower of Christ sell every possession. What it does do is challenge our understanding of what we hold dear. For some it is indeed their “many possessions.” For others it might be a particular possession, or simply accumulation of wealth.
To be sure, there are certainly non-physical or tangible things that can possess us the way this man’s possessions possessed him, and on another week, given the awful and horrific headlines that besiege us every day, those things probably would have taken over this sermon.
For now, I know Jim has been waiting for this “stewardship sermon.” We are rapidly approaching that Sunday (November 8) on which we ask of you a pledge of financial support for this coming year of the church’s life.
Preachers hate, and (I do not overstate this) – I mean hate – preaching stewardship sermons. (A preacher who claims otherwise is not to be trusted.) In no small part they are profoundly uncomfortable to preach because it’s impossible not to be aware that part of what you are seeking in preaching a “stewardship sermon” is … your own salary. And it’s frequently impossible not to feel that your own salary is probably too large a portion of the church’s budget. So yeah, it’s uncomfortable. It’s also not terribly thrilling to acknowledge that much of the budget that the stewardship campaign seeks goes toward decidedly mundane things: paying the electric bill, keeping the grass mowed, getting the copier fixed so these bulletins can be printed, getting those furnaces downstairs inspected as required (that was this past Thursday) and so forth. Not exactly the stuff of thrilling oratory, no matter how practical or necessary.
And yet, those mundane things, keeping our fiscal house in order and the bills paid, are utterly necessary, and doing so involves a pledge to keep our priorities in order, to avoid being so consumed by some possessions or other that we do not contribute to the upkeep of the body of Christ, that we avoid the “I” that so consumed this rich young man questioning Jesus and remember the “we” that gathers here in this space weekly, as well as those members of the “we” that can no longer be with us physically but most certainly remain part of “we” in spirit.
By no means do I encourage you to give in order to “save yourself.” That’s not Jesus’s message to the young man, and it’s not Jesus’s message to you. By no means do I encourage you to give in order to assuage any guilty conscience you might feel. That doesn’t work either, and is no less guilty of being “works righteousness.” By no means do I encourage you to give for any reason that begins with “I” or “me.” Give for “we.” Give for the edifying of the body of Christ. Give for the work of ministry. Give for the proclamation of good news.
Honesty compels me to acknowledge that this time of year – this “stewardship campaign” season – will not be the only time we ask for money or other donations over the course of a year. You know this; why pretend otherwise? For example, the PC(USA)'s Christmas Joy offering will be coming along soon, and there's also our denomination's disaster relief work in the wake of Hurricane Isaias. And that's just two examples.
I have no doubt that your well-demonstrated generosity will rise to these occasions, but first our generosity must rise to the call of taking care of the basics. Pledge cards aren’t fancy or thrilling, but pledging does call upon us to avoid the self-centered trap of the rich young man, and to pull together as the body of Christ, each contributing and giving and supporting to the best of her or his own ability.
For bearing witness, helping those in need, and keeping the lights on, Thanks be to God. Amen.
Hymns (from Glory to God: The Presbyterian Hymnal): #692, Spirit, Open My Heart; #708, We Give Thee But Thine Own; #697, Take My Life






